How Tele-Energetic Visualization Can Help You with a Difficult Boss

Have you ever noticed that whenever you enter your boss’s cabin, you start getting nervous and your hands start to shake? This is not necessarily because of some kind of fear. It’s mainly because of that old memory of being powerless and that unresolved anger within you. Your boss is the same person who has previously blocked every idea of yours, taken credit for your work, and spoken to you like you do not matter at all.

Every passing day that you go to your office and interact with your boss, it feels like another struggle. A brand-new struggle. If you listen to people, they would advise you to set your own limits, control your emotions, write down your emotions, and then take some kind of therapy for this. That’s fair advice. I won’t deny it.

However, sometimes even after doing everything, things might still feel like you’re stuck. There is an imbalance in power in the office. And there’s a deeper conflict somewhere, and you know it. Something in the energetic field between you and your boss keeps the whole loop of conflict going. Tele-energetic visualization can be really useful in this regard.

In the beginning, everything that I’m saying might sound very strange. The concept of transmitting thoughts and energy over a long distance to change your equation with a human sounds strange, of course. However, when the standard methods don’t work, many people have to resort to things on an energy level. Now, this is not magic. This is simply to end that victim mentality that you have developed over the years and start a change that begins from within.

Conflict with a boss is personal

When it comes to a colleague in an office, you can push back because there’s no power dynamic involved. But with your boss, it’s different. With your boss, there’s a power dynamic involved. At the same time, there are real stakes involved, like your salary, your paycheck, your reputation, your peace, your next promotion, etc. This kind of imbalance in the power dynamics makes everything much harder for you.

Whenever you have a bad day in the office, and whenever your boss shouts at you, you will have that conversation playing in your head all night long. And then you start preparing for each encounter the following day. How you’re going to respond to him. What you’re going to tell him when he says something. Those kinds of thoughts keep repeating. It’s not work stress anymore. It has turned into a chronic, low-grade emotional wound and it is much more personal now.

Normal advice that everyone will give at this point is to communicate with your boss or change your job if you’re not happy. Yes, of course, both are useful. However, they do not tackle the underlying pattern: how your nervous system, as a human being, responds to this person. And when you see them the next time, even though they are not harsh with you, even though they do not shout at you, your nervous system still responds differently every time you see your boss.

Because the wound is now chronic in nature. Their energy will start interfering with your unresolved energy. Now, this is where tele-energetic visualization comes into play. Tele-energetic visualization works in that subtle layer of your energy. It sees the conflict as if it’s occurring in your consciousness, in your awareness, and not just in your boss’s office or in that meeting room.

What is Tele-Energetic Visualization?

Tele-energetic visualization is a combination of intention, visualization, and awareness. In this visualization, you’re not going to look at your boss as your enemy, but as a fellow human being. As a fellow soul who has come onto this planet. They have their own personal life, their own personal burdens, their own personal wounds, their own childhood traumas. They have their own financial pressures. And because of that, even they are suffering at some level.

You see the real them. Then intentionally send them clean, calm energy. And then maintain a peaceful image of them in your mind. You’re not controlling them. You’re not trying to force them into coming to an agreement with you. You’re simply moving the field between you and your boss. Some people might imagine it like tuning into an old radio until the static goes away.

Others will view it as a silent, long, lonely bridge of understanding that unites two people into resolving whatever unresolved issues are there between them. The secret to doing tele-energetic visualization is to do it regularly without expecting any results. You’re not casting spells. You’re not doing white magic. You’re simply restraining your own energy and controlling your own perception on a psychological level.

The first step is to sit down and do the work

Find a quiet time for yourself. Probably after work. Even early morning works. You just need five minutes. Close your eyes. Breathe in and breathe out a couple of times. Then imagine your boss. Do not imagine the angry boss. I mean, you just need to imagine the human side of him. Now visualize this human being, this boss of yours, in a neutral place and not in the office. Probably imagine him at home with his kids, helping them with their homework. Okay?

Now imagine him coming out for a morning walk. And suddenly you meet him on a morning walk. And you strike up a conversation with him. He’s quite calm and composed outside the office. Visualize a clear stream of grounded energy arising from your heart area. Send that energy to him. It should not be an aggressive energy.

It should not be an energy that comes from fear. It just has to be a proper, steady energy that comes from your soul. And you’re giving it to another soul, another human being. Do not see him as your boss, but just as a fellow human being. Maintain a simple intention while doing so. Have this intention in inverted commas: “May this interaction be for the good of both of us. May you find peace. May you have a peaceful life where you resolve all your conflicts.” Send them that healing energy.

Sometimes the visualization can be really strong. Other days, when you’re tired, maybe the visualization might not be that strong. It might be just short. You can count both days. It’s fine. As long as you’re doing it with the right intention, you’re showing up every single day. It’s absolutely fine.

The first shift that occurs is the inner shift

The first thing that you might experience is that the shift will happen within you before it can happen with your boss. You’ll start having a calm mind. You’ll stop rehearsing those arguments in your head so obsessively. Your body will stop going into fight-or-flight mode every time you see your boss.

There will be a gap, a space between your boss’s action and the way you react to his actions on an emotional level. That space matters. That space will interrupt that automatic loop that you get into about what he said and how you should respond. That loop constantly puts you into a state of being chronically wounded on an emotional level.

Once you heal that wound, then you are no longer defensive. You’re no longer angry. You have a much clearer mind. A much calmer mind. Now, as you change, you’ll observe that your boss’s actions will change as well. Your boss’s tone will change. You’ll feel that your boss’s tone has changed now. You’ll feel that they listen to you a little bit longer. You might feel that they’re not as aggressive as they used to be.

Well, this is not at all guaranteed. Bad people can stay bad. But that intensity might reduce. The conflicts will decrease. And above all, you’ll have a much bigger hold on the situation.

When nothing seems to change

There are some conflicts that are structural in nature. There are some poisonous environments. There is no solution at all. It’s part of a broken system. Unless you change the system, nothing else changes. In those instances, visualization is still useful. It makes you much more aware of the situation. You know when it’s the right time to leave such an office. It helps you to make tough decisions without panic, with a much clearer mind.

Please do not expect miracles using tele-energetic visualization. Expect incremental changes as you keep doing it regularly on an everyday basis. It will not magically change a tyrant into a mentor. It will only prevent you from that victim mentality where you are the victim in your story. Sometimes, it makes room for something better to come between two broken people who are trying to make it work in their careers. That may be as good as it gets.